I used to see my former T around my community fairly often. She once sat next to me at a lecture and I totally panicked! Other times were okay, and of course now that she's not my T anymore, I'm fine when I see her and we can talk almost normally. She in fact did come to my house twice while I was still seeing her as my T. Once was when my father died, and the other was for an open house for a happier occasion. It was kind of strange, but comforting. I liked having her see my house.

I fantasize that I am in my current T's house more than her in mine. I told her about that, how I wished I could meet her H, see her pets, see her artwork, etc. It hurts to think it will never happen.