Chopin, I hope you're all right with all of these comments. It reminds me of my threads where I get criticized, except it's your T getting criticized. My former T used to get criticized a lot, which made me defensive. I think most people want to defend their Ts. So, first I want you to know that, even though you report what happened, none of us is there with you in the room so we don't know what T's face really looked like, only what you say. Not that I don't believe you, it's just that we still see only your side of the picture.

I think I would cringe at some of the things your T said. I agree that they are inappropriate and unprofessional. I don't want to repeat everything that was said in other posts. I hope you and your T can come to an understanding but I think she's got to own her part in "messing up" last session. It reminds me of zooropa's T and her problems. Wonder how she is. I hope your T apologizes for some of the hurtful comments she made.