Sabrina,

That's why I asked the question...because I know others will come at things from a different perspective and shed a different light on things.

As to suppressed dreams...I guess working as a professional musician again would be a big one. Maybe not playing full time, but working in a store or something, too.

Another one would be finishing my degree. It's been almost 30 years since I left school, I would really like to finish.

And the third would be to make enough money to support myself and my family...even if I can't live with them. I don't know if this last one qualifies for a dream-it's something that I have to do at some level...

OK, maybe I do have dreams after all!

DJ