It is sad, but when men compartmentalize their life they also do this with the LOVE of their life and the LUST of a beautiful sexy woman.... they can often do both and not let one effect the other - were as we females are like noodles, with everything intertwined together and every single noodle touches the other one, our life & love - past & present.

I often wonder out load to God as to why he allowed such an occurs to take place within the ones He created.... I guess some things are not meant to be known by humans.

Take-Care and stand up for yourself as I did when my husband went through his ten year span of porn.... he has finally stopped.

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))