I'm so sorry you are going through all this. I give big kudos to you and your wife for being able to get along as friends and set a good example in that way for your daughter. There are so many people that put their children right in the middle when the are divorced. I think it is wonderful that the two of you aren't doing that. It sure can be hard to accept the damage that we have done to our personal relationships. I know this is one I struggle with daily. We just have to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Thinking of you during your difficult time. Blessings.