Bless your heart. It's difficult not to bond with the baby since your situation is so difficult. But try not to "punish" this poor baby for that. This child is going to need you desperately, just like your 16yr old, and 22 yr old. A newborn depends on it's mother completely -- so TRY to bond with it if possible. I know it's difficult.

Don't let your boyfriend dictate your life. If you want and need to move back, then do it. He CANNOT take the baby away from you when it's born. How can he prove you an unfit mother when you're doing what's best for your children? He has NO proof and no basis for a charge of that sort. I wouldn't worry about it, and CPS cannot take the baby either! So move back if you feel you need to. You're NOT married -- so you can do almost what you want. Do it BEFORE the baby is born tho!!!

God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee