It is really hard to find good in this society. The world isn't black and white, it's a mixture of both and sometimes good people aren't so good. I am to a certain extent a very good person, but I know that I am selfish and introverted and shy away from friends and family. Because of this I hurt them.
But more and more I've noticed good in the world. I appreciate moments with my friends and family that are "good". In a way I think I influence and instill others to be good because of this. Appreciation feels weird, it's like joy and pride and awe all mixed together, and it inspires me to bring this feeling toward other people. Whenever I notice good, I make sure to tell people about it. I compliment people, I tell them I appreciate them, that I miss them! People have really reacted well towards this, people I've never gotten along with like my brother and father. It mores than just compliments and appreciation, but more just never giving up on the person and focusing on good things that have happened.

And the mean ones out there? > well there's nothing you can do but be kind, and hope that it's just a bad time in their life!