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Old Dec 14, 2012, 05:59 PM
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Sounds like you may be overwhelmed by all his compliments? idk.

I relate to feeling like I am pressured.

My last bf back in 2007 said all t his and all that to me and it just made me think he wanted to go further. Or it was just a prelude to s*x.

I agree with the advice about going slow. Or maybe even tell him how you feel when he tells you this and that. When Andy (my most recent bf) did that, it felt uncomfortable. I had to keep joking and saying, "Andy, if you keep putting me on that pedestal, you better have a net ready! I can't fall on my *** again". lol

Carol
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Thanks for this!
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