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Old Dec 14, 2012, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Stranger516 View Post
The holidays can be a very lonely and difficult time for someone who has lost a loved one. I have lost a few people near and dear to my heart and I would do anything to just get five more minutes with them. Sure the holidays are not what they used to be, but I know that my lost loved ones would not want me to mope around. I was always told to try and make the best of things. I still have some family left and my boyfriend and his family who are like my own. While I will always miss my family who have passed on, I will always remember them while trying to make the best out of the holiday season.
If you need to "mope", sometimes, I understand. I am sure you are making the best of th ings.

It *is* hard to deal with bereavement during holidays.

My aunt did not want me to miss her. But I did. I also am in the process of making my holidays my way.

Carol
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