I have been seeing my T for 9 mo now every week. At first there was no connection but my H connected w/ her so I continued because it was important that he find someone he like being that this was his first time w/ T. We have had more then a few visits alone now just me and her and I feel more comfortable w/ her then I used to. I have just began to trust her. I believe her when she says you are safe in here. Your H cannot hurt you in here. I know she has my back if my H becomes dangerous and it is not safe for me to go home w/ him and she makes other arrangements for me. I trust her judgement to make that call.

I am doing trauma work and I am just now starting to trust her w/ the truth. I am terrified but I think she is trust worthy even though I may not fully trust her yet. It is a process, and I am quite resistant to forming bonds, relationships and trusting.