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Originally Posted by Sannah
To explore this ^ would be really good. Your dad gets you going? Why do you hate losing your temper? I think that you can work through this and figure out exactly why your dad triggers you. If you understand what is going on, you won't be a "victim" to it and won't be lost in it and, then, won't get so upset about it.
The key is to understand, not to control so much.
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I hate the way I react. Sometimes I catch myself and try to keep calm, but it's too late and I've already offended him or something and he won't let it go. He's quite firm with stuff and it's hard for me to argue with him. I decided some time ago to just agree/pretend to agree with him all the time, but sometimes I forget and try to get my point across or defend myself. A lot of the time, I feel something like he thinks I want to be bad, or that I don't regret it, then he mocks me and emphasizes what I did wrong and I hate that so much. On my part, I find it difficult to apologize, which I guess may be why he thinks that way.