She was being cruel and deliberate. Her intention was to show dominance.

People in the waiting room hmmm...

I would've stripped naked in her office and spanked my own *** red. then I would have ran out of the office still naked with clothes in hand and show my freshly spanked *** to every person in the waiting room, screaming she spanked me she spanked me.

The the only medicine I have for people is laughter but seriously if I did that, it would instantly destroy 12 months of progress she was trying to make in her own life.

She essentially destroyed your reputation with her.
how would she feel if you destroyed her reputation?

relationships are 2 way street regardless of the dynamics.

She was cruel.