First, I didn't know what that icon meant but I kinda liked the looks of it.....

I wholeheartedly agree about people and their actions....but I prefer to think that all ppl are ACCOUNTABLE for their actions but assigning full responsibilty for them is another matter......
I guess I am just saying that someone isn't ALWAYS soley to blame for their actions.......but that does not excuse them......

For example, during manic periods ( Please pick me ) a person experiencing poor/no impulse control will pay the price for overspending or overeating, etc...but they are not entirely to "blame"