Could be the biological clock and NORMAL female instincts, it crosses my mind fairly frequently to have another baby. Both of us with over 3 pregnancies, we're baby making machines. Plus I think about, I'm 39, almost 40 there's not much time left if I want another child.

But I think it through, and the main thing that stops me is my love for my 3 children I already have. They need my attention, support, any extra money I might make for their college. They could have babies at some soon time here, and I want to be available for them. If they have children young like I did, they are really going to need my help.

There is still time Hammie to give all this love and nurturing inside you to your girls. They still need you whether they realize it or not. And they are only a few years away from possibly making you a grandma. I also think that the girls have been through enough and would feel hurt, possibly abandoned if you had a new baby at this time.

Sorry if I'm blunt, it's a totally personal decision, but you asked for feedback. I think going back to further your degrees was an excellent idea and the extra money you would make could really help their futures, and their future babies, and you'd easily afford to travel and have some really good times.