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This all sounds so familiar to me, and I'm so sorry to hear you having to go through this. I never could get myself to leave my ex-, despite all the warning signs, which were similar. I was so attached to her. But I was able to stick to my values and my questions, and not let her tell decide what was right and what was wrong with me (which I wimped out on a little bit, but generally not) - and she eventually fired me.
I don't think that is inevitable that things won't work out. I think if it was my current therapist, we would work it out. I've been in other situations that things didn't look like things would work out, and with enough talking they worked out. But I don't imagine this will go on forever. Something will change, or one of you will reach your limit. And what I think was the best thing I did was stay with my values and my understanding of things.
Last edited by Syra; Dec 15, 2012 at 06:52 PM.
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