Yeah we owned the place for 19.5 years. Then, through things dealing with the president of the bank and my mom's father, he was able to take it secretly. It was really the only place I have ever known. The house we own now is alright but to in the town for my comfort. I did a clean break with them but felt bad so called to wish them a happy thanksgiving and they talked like nothing had happen. Like they didn't give that house away for free to their estranged daughter and her family. It sent me almost to the hospital. I figured now I need to cut them off completely but I used to be so close to my mother's mother. I am just really depressed about it.