I call my T out on stuff when she says something offensive. Like the time she was reading out loud one of my dreams that I didn't want to read out loud and she inadvertently giggled a little and I told her to "shut up!" and she acknowledged that letting the giggle out was not very therapeutic. I called her out on it, she apologized, and we moved on. I figure, she's human just like me and subject to make mistakes just like me. As long as she owns up to it I am ok.