It sounds to me like she is an older woman who hasn't had much exposure to someone who is gay/lesbian and that she is the one who is uncomfortable. If you could get passed being offended, I would laugh when she asks that. If you think about it ...it kind of gives you a lot of power...you now get to answer on how millions of people feel about something or do something? It would be like if my T asked me so how do all 45 year old white professional women deal with .....

its one thing not to know how You feel about something and to ask that question...its another for her to ask you to answer for a whole segment of society.