Hi all, i just wanna say one thing. im sure you all know it but dont seem to take not of it! We 'men' are different form you 'women'.
It might seem like a big deal for you when he says, 'she looks sexy'. Dont take it personally! He is with you! know think about it, if he see's a model on tv, but is with you, you've done something right! dont you think??

Ive heard this joke once, it goes something like this:

There is a sexy calander in the garage, of a woman half naked and sitting on and washing a sports car! The man exclames, 'ahhh if i had that women and car'!
Some thime passed and he got the sexy wife and the sports car he'd always wanted. When he went to the garage he say his sexy wife, half naked sitting on and washing the sports car! The man exclamed, 'Get OFF the car love, and for god's sake put some clothes on!!'

So what i mean is that guys fantasise alot, dont take everything they say personally because what they say and what they want are two different things!

Secondly in life, not just a relationship, the worst thing to be is insecure! i know i was insecure, well still am but much much less then when i was younger! You are a winner if you feel you are one, so its all up to you! Remember you've got the man you love, and he loves you!! Isnt that enough to win over your insecurities? You need to be beautiful in his eyes only, and you certainly are since he is with you!

Life is fun, live it!