OK, a candidate, Michael, someone from one of my prior jobs. Just sent me a chat. Has everything going for him - age, profession, very very trustworthy, with integrity, education, parents (since I cannot provide grandparents I would ideally want the father to provide local grandparents), never married, no children - a perfect candidate... except that he is too short. Way too short. For a girl, it does not matter - petite girls are ever so sexy and fragile. For boys, it does matter a lot and I would not want to risk giving a boy those kind of genes. No, will not ask Michael. Which is a shame.