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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
normal fashion
without assistance from T.
I worry about these to statements. Yes you can raise a child but without T's assistants what does that mean?
I think you really need to feel you will be raising the child on your own. Which means you may want to look into a sperm bank.
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Now, I go into T sessions and with the T we role-play my conversations with my kids and after such sesssions I write letters to my kids. Each T session costs only $60 because the T is only a trainee (but excellent - I am very lucky).
So I want parenting unmediated by T's. Where I just talk to my child directly.
Sperm bank is for ladies who are independently wealthy, I feel. I cannot afford even the procedure of fertiliazation itself, which is why I prefer good old sexual intercourse which is completely free. Plus, I do want some participation on the father's side - it is not that I am completely unwilling to compromise and just want to run the show 100% by myself. I just do not want extremes, e.g. when I do not have custody. But splitting the time between two parents, sure. I will just need to find a good man for that.