(((AngelWolf3)))

That's a really tough situation for me to my give advice upon. 99/100 times, I'm confused by my feelings and intentions. So, I certainly don't want to share any of my bad luck. I just wanted you to know that I can deeply relate to this issue.

My ex-hub and I also have 2 kids together, which requires regular visitation and communication with one another. I do care about him, and frequently dream about us being back together again. What that means, I have no idea! Relationships are extremely complex to me, as there are many different possibilities. I am unwilling to put our girls through any more trauma, so I keep my dreams and emotions to myself. It's better that way for me. I'm pretty darn sure of that ~ as there are still key issues that bug the bejeezers out of me! Things that won't ever change, and I have to remain mindful of those issues to keep me in a clear state of mind.

Perhaps you need to remind yourself of positives & negatives of your ex-hub, and examine whether or not you have truly come to accept these personality characteristics. Can you accept his lack of change? Have you changed & can he accept that reality?? Try not to run with the emotions, but stay mindful of both facts and emotions ~ take both sides into consideration.

I wish you the very best!!