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Originally Posted by Readytostop
It sounds to me like she is an older woman who hasn't had much exposure to someone who is gay/lesbian and that she is the one who is uncomfortable. If you could get passed being offended, I would laugh when she asks that. If you think about it ...it kind of gives you a lot of power...you now get to answer on how millions of people feel about something or do something? It would be like if my T asked me so how do all 45 year old white professional women deal with .....
its one thing not to know how You feel about something and to ask that question...its another for her to ask you to answer for a whole segment of society.
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You are correct Readytostop,
She is an older lady in her 50's and has told me herself that she doesn't know that many gay people, sometimes it seems to me that she wants to learn about them through me but it is not fair for me to speak for a whole minority. I only represent myself. She is curious about it. She is always asking about how I am going to have children, to conceive them myself or sperm bank job.
I know many of you might not understand my T, \she is very well educated and has been a teacher of other Ts. Maybe its just how she is with me, I don't know but I do think she is more of herself in our sessions and sometimes the human appears- the human who makes mistakes and puts her foot in it.