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Originally Posted by button30
You are correct Readytostop,
She is an older lady in her 50's and has told me herself that she doesn't know that many gay people, sometimes it seems to me that she wants to learn about them through me but it is not fair for me to speak for a whole minority. I only represent myself. She is curious about it. She is always asking about how I am going to have children, to conceive them myself or sperm bank job.
I know many of you might not understand my T, \she is very well educated and has been a teacher of other Ts. Maybe its just how she is with me, I don't know but I do think she is more of herself in our sessions and sometimes the human appears- the human who makes mistakes and puts her foot in it.
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I'm a lesbian, pdoc is straight, 58 and I teach her, too. I wish every heterosexual could be as open minded and respectful as she is. There have been times when what she has said or put forth upset me, I've learned to speak with her about it as quickly as I can, because resentment is not something I believe you can afford in a therapeutic setting.
Speak with as soon as you can and see what you can learn from each other.