My husband and I have been married for 5 months. He is currently deployed in Afghanistan. I just found out last night that a couple of months before we got married he cheated on me, they didn't have sex but they did mess around. He had told me about this insident except when he told me he said it happened before him and I met. And I'd asked a few times if he's ever cheated(it was a long distance relationship) he always said no. So not only did he cheat but he has lied about it a few times. What do I do? We are married mow and it happened 9 months ago. And I know it has not happened since. =(