I kind of think of it that way Fooze.. If they know right up front, they can make a choice before anyones feelings get TO hurt (Doesn't always work out that way because when I like someone, it seems like I REALLY like them! I find that a huge curse!)..

I don't see why a person would want to lie to others and themselves about who they are. I have a gentleman i've been talking to for a few weeks bits and peices, and he's seen the randomness of my moods, and last night when I was sad and talking to him he told me "Stop saying that you are crazy. Even if you are crazy, I love that you do not pretend to be anyone else but you. There are so many woman out there who are lieing to themselves just to get a guy, that they end up depressed and guilty in the long run because they can't be who they really are. You are trying to get help for the problems you face daily, and you get mad kudos for that. You are TRYING to get better. You are WANTING to make your life better. That is more then most people can say. You are amazing just the way you are, and you seem to make live very fun and interesting. " it kind of made my night:-)