Tomorrow will be a year since my grandfather died. Today I find myself extremely angry. Not angry about his death. I'm angry at the response or lack there of from my in laws. Or as i call them lately the "outlaws".
Since marrying my H 13 years ago. I've always been supportive, open, and trying my hardest to be there for them. For every baby born, every accident, hospitalization, wedding, deaths, social organization, etc.. You name it. I have ALWAYS extend condolences, sent gifts, flowers, etc.
When my grandfather died... Not a word, not an email message, FB message call NOTHING from them. Today of all days it has resurfaced and I am mad as hell about it.
How could they be so nasty, cold, yet profess they're so Christian? They're selfish, dirty heated, greedy people. That is what they've taught me.
Now when something happens, I say nothing. Not a word. They now complain more about me.
Is it normal to be so angry about people who behave this way? Why is this resurfacing now. my focus should be on my grandfather. Not on some people who clearly do not give to cents about me.
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