You know, I could say the same thing about my stbxh......but you know what?????? When he doesn't want you to know something he just doesn't say anything & believes that with holding information is NOT LYING......I beg to differ.

The thing is that you really don't know this guy because you are NOT involved in his life.....there is so much that's possible he's hiding from you because YOU just aren't there to really KNOW what he's doing when he's not around you.