Sorry if I rant on and on...this really has me upset.
Tonight the mother of my son's gf was here. She had to talk to my son and myself before she decides if she will let her daughter go with me and my son to a wedding for the weekend.

One of the problems is that my son is 19 and his girlfriend is 16 and they had sex and her mother found out about it... I had no clue to any of this. I know my son is an adult and should have been man enough to say NO to her but how many guys do... I still know it was wrong and I told them both that after I did find out.

The other mother looked at me tonight and told me that my son and myself are untrustworthy... and because we don't go to church that is another mark against us. I told her I can pray to God in my own home and asked her to stop pushing her Catholic church on my son... I am Catholic...not a follower though....
The mother just cleaned up her act a few years ago. SHe use to drink and take drugs and now she goes to church everyday some times as much as three times a day since she quit. I feel that she looks down at us because we don't go to church... But she still has no right telling me that we are untrust worth... she don't know me and I am one of the most trust worthy people she has ever met I would be willing to tell her... I went to her house last week while she was at work to sit with her daughter... son's gf.... becasue she wanted to cut herself. All the mother was concerned about was that she was doing this to get back at the mother... all me, me, me... no concern for the girl...
I better stop here because the boiling point is getting very close already... Thanks for listening...