My fiance has bipolar disorder and adhd-c and we frequently talk about who is crazier. I think my crazy is more creative and his is more destructive. He gets angry and I get scared, not about each other but it's how we react to our heads. My thoughts make me scared of myself and he gets hyper and angry and then sad. I might sit there thinking "oh no, one of my arms is longer than the other" and obsess over that for a while. He will start a bunch of projects and lose sleep working on them until he exhausts himself. I think we're different but equal, I'm glad we found each other because no one understands me like him.