First off, close the facebook page for both of your protection, it's not secure.

Does you fiance like his job? If not, move on. I have bused these kids around in the past. Some are reachable, others are too far gone.

It's too bad these schools aren't able to use military style discipline. It really does help them to have rules to follow with consequences.
Unfortunately, this country is too Liberal for that.

Hope it all works out.