Thanks you guys,{gals}I really do need feed back on this. I did call the old director this a.m. and she was careful and polite but confirmed my instinct about insecurity being the young woman's driving force. She is opening her own day care and I will visit her 8 month old Jacob whom I have not seen in a few months. I do not want to be vulnerable. Being at the original center made me happy, gave me strength, but with the current situation it would just be a stress. Geez I love those little guys and love talking parenthood. So thanks again and I will keep you all posted. I have a lot of education and experience in learning issues and sensory integration problems. I have read more then anyone I know on all related subjects due to daughters OCD. Yes I am well educated and that is threatening to her. Argghh.