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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
You need to look out for yourself. If you can start therapy. There's been a lot of damage that may or may not be able to be repair. She doesn't seem "over" the pain and is lashing out at you. This does not excuse her abuse of you. If you are not going to AA have her go to alanon. You can't force her to therapy. Just as much as no one can or should force medication on you. She may actually resent you for mentioning it because she may see it as all your fault. She may warm up to visiting yours from time to time.
Here's some steps you can take to make a better situation:
Try not to argue because your son doesn't need that.
Ask her to try alanon
look into HUD (section 8 & public housing)
Look into SSI
Get yourself a good therapist
Since your on the computer stop here.
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Thanks for the reply.
I am in Therapy. go every Monday at 310pm. I take my son and he does his homework in another room.
The therapist is okay but I don't feel like I am solving any problems at home through it but I am attending and I am compliant.
As for my wife attending Al Anon. We are not getting along that is for sure but I don't hate her. I have already stated in my op what I thought of AA. Why would you assume I would think Al Anon is any better. Al-Anon's program of recovery is based on the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous.
What s SSI?
If this forum is primarily God centered then maybe I need to look elsewhere?