I adopted one of a sibling pair many years ago after having them boh for 2-3 years. I let the older one go as hse had behaviors hat were hurtful to the younger kids. Today she has an 18 month old daughter and lets her birthmother who signed away parental rights, walk this baby in a shopping cart through city streets all afternoon long. The baby doesn't eat and my daughter states that babe's mom says she can't stand her and is always yelling at her. So here we are watching as another soul is damaged. This woman can't care and feed for a cat let alone a child. It won't be long before the state is involved. Then the child is lost in a system. I wish I could do more now.