Thanks for sharing! I have bolted and have returned to discuss it. I left cuz I was frustrated at being unable to self-disclose due to her previous reactions to my self-disclosure. She has recently owned up to that. What I want now is assurance that she will give me what I ask for (exploratory/psychodynamic approach). Still, there's been a loss of trust and I sincerely want to know how can trust be re-established.
Oh yes it's been feeling like a divorce for me as well. The heartache is torturous.....