I have been on two restaurant dates with a guy who sounds like a good prospect. I am not attracted, but it is OK - I respect him a lot and I am not physically repulsed and that is enough for me. I am leaving for Christmas and will email him when I am back, and then what? What do people do on subsequent dates - activities together, or what? What is the expected progression on, say, dates 3 - 5, if there are certain rules in this area?