T wants you to have exposure, to use your tools.

You don't disagree but you think that the exposure she has in mind is excessive, particularly given the long separation you just survived.

I can't figure out what percentage each of you is right. But I do know that T is not automatically right just because she is T.

I agree with Antimatter (#10). Talk everything through, clearly and honestly state your concerns, listen to what she has to say in response, and proceed as you think best.