I'm a little confused, what is the underlying problem that needs to be solve, if there are isues to be addressed, there not going to be solved by fighting, and I doubt you want to fight just for the sake of fighting. And then there's
the inevitable question, if your not communicating now as
as boy friend and girl friend, what else won't you be doing if you ever take it to the next level called matramony . . . good luck . . .