I do care about your pain, I do care about other people's pain but all my life everyone elses pain has ALWAYS discredited mine and I need to be allowed to be selfish if you would grant me that. I'm so very tired of being the one who sits and listens for hours on end to everyone's problems and I dont mind if I can help by doing so but when I open up my mouth to talk about my pain I get BAMMED and told I'm feeling sorry for myself and what are you crying about and yada yada yada.
I'm sorry if you're taking this personally ohlittlehoshime, like I said, you hit a nerve.
Anyway, like I said, I'm trying to rectify the problem by going to do volunteer work.