Hi Skittles,
It's like you caught a cold/flu of sorts but in an area that's not supposed to be talked about and there's a lot of insinuations with that area with ANY kind of illnesses that may develop down there.
Every other part of the body except there and in your emotional mind-it's OKAY to be sick in. But boy oh boy-get sick in one of those two areas or both and you can expect alot of negative assumptions and nobody sympathizes.
Try to see it like any other part of the body. It caught some germs and got ill. Like an infected sore on an arm or a toothache.
You took care of it-you're not spreading any germs around. So, you had a little buffet of dates when you were feeling down and lonely. It's not against the law and you didn't go out and intentionally hurt anyone, did you? No.
((((((Skittles))))))))) You're not dirty. You had an illness. It's that simple.