Hmm. I think I would wonder why he deleted the conversation with that girl he used to flirt with since he knew you'd be able to see it. And do you think he'll tell you the truth WHY he deleted it? A liar could make up any old story. But to his credit, you say he always ends up telling you the "truth."

It just bothers me that he does these things and hides them from you in the first place. I wouldn't want to be with someone who lies and flirts with other girls and then deletes the conversations so you can't see it, or just plain does things he says he won't do anymore. He's not being honest and I just don't think I'd want that kind of relationship. If you can't be honest with each other & have trust in a relationship, then it's no good.

It seems to me you're going to always worry about this guy. You're always going to wonder if he's flirting, cheating, doing weed, etc. Why put yourself thru that? Personally, I'd rather find someone I didn't have to worry about all the time. I'd rather have someone who's REALLY open and honest with me and does what he SAYS he going to do. I don't think this relationship is going to go very far my friend. But maybe with alot of work and counseling, it might work. I wish you the very best. God bless. Hugs, Lee