My first impulse on the last part about FB is that he's still lying. The thing that I notice about this guy is that after the fact he's been caught or discovered, he fesses up. Seems to me a quick way to quell your frustration and anger by quickly come to the table and answering for his deceit. I'm not sure if if you should feel that he's being honest even now. It really appears his first impulse is to lie, and do what his temptations draw him to do rather than be open with you about things in his life first and deal with things head on.

Honestly it's not the makings of a solid foundation for a relationship that would be good for you. Sure you could endure and keep hoping he'll start being honest but for how long will you have to wait? He's already proven a habitual liar so far, how many repeated offenses will it take before you're fed up?

I hope he is being honest with you and I hope for the best for you two but my inclination is to say you can find an honest, faithful and devoted man out there. lying cheaters are a dime a dozen.

*hugs*