SadSamuel, if you want to have a relationship and be involved sexually with a woman, then it could be an issue. But I just don't think men or women should feel upset about it, especially if it's because their society seems to think it's bad to be a virgin after a certain age.

If you do feel like it "sucks," then I would suggest seeing a counselor and working through your barriers. There's something to be said about the enjoyment of just kissing, especially if one's partner is just not good in bed!

And, yes, on the other side, folks who have been sexually abused need not feel guilty about that. It wasn't their choice.