I feel your pain. My H is the same way. He is loud, and does not get my since of personal space, or anyone's for that matter. He loses his temper and doesn't realize the force he uses w/ his words.

His aggrivated body language scares me. When people are aggrivated someone or something caused it. I assume it was me or by my doings. Then I walk on egg shells trying to avoid him and I set myself up for my own demise. He knows his tone is harsh and is working on that. He gets angry at me when he tries to be calm and I don't do as he says even when he is calm. For example Instead of saying "GO CLEAN THE CAR, RIGHT NOW he says calmly "Go clean the car, now" in a calm tone. It is not a matter of tone and my obeying it is a matter of convience and asking why can't you do it now, or when it is convient will you clean the car. I tell him you can call me a "B" w/ an angry tone or you can call me a "B" w/ a calm pleasent tone butit doesn't change the fact that you called me a "B" .

What he precieves as loud and what I precieve as loud is different because of the PTSD. What I see as standing to close and what he sees as to close is different. By Monday I am ready for Zanax. Thank God he goes to work.

Part of the reason the T likes to see us on Tuesdays is that it generally takes 48 hours to start to mentally recover from an issue. What happens over the weekend and the stress it causes she can get a fairly clear picture of on Mon & Tues.

Well someone is waiting for the computer to finish home school for the day. Thank you so much for sharing.