So the move didn't help out my husband's and I's situation at all. There's boxes everywhere, him working and not wanting to do anything at the house but expecting me to do everything with the 3 kids at home all day every day, leaving stuff out for the technician that came to install the internet to steal (my fault, I left it all out), being broke cause I was fired (my fault too)... it's never ending and I'm always at fault. When he's home, I stay away! I can't do anything right and he speaks to me and treats me like he hates me. I'm done with it and can only see separation as the solution. He won't talk to me, when he does, it's all my fault!! I can't take this any more! YET, when he's feeling "amorous" and I'm "not in the mood" (cause, let's face it, there's nothing that's happened all day to make me feel any love from him), he gets mad!! Any ideas??