I can understand what you are going through. My grandmother does it to me all of the time. I have gotten to the point in not answering the phone when she calls. I call her back in a few days and it seems to help. The emotions are not running so high at that point. She has calmed down and I can talk to her. I make it my policy that there has to be 24 hours after the fight or what ever before I will talk about it with her. Just a word of advise. It may not work for you but what will it hurt to try. Keep your head up. Things will work out.