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I'm sure this will be deemed nonsupportive, but your insecurities and low self esteem are not your boyfriend's responsibility to try and fix. Only you can fix your self esteem. Dumping the guy isn't the answer. If we dumped every guy who fantasized about some unobtainable breasts, we'd be a lonely lot of people.

You could stop if you wanted to, but you must be getting some reward out of continuing to beat yourself up emotionally.

Just my take.

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But the issue is that he says these things, not that he thinks them.

I can relate to this situation a bit, my partner is sort of the same way and has made comments about my body before on a number of occasions. I'm quite sure that many if not most other guys i've been with have had similar thoughts and opinions but there's no problem if what they're thinking isn't said!

I would hate to be in your position, crop. I'd be having tantys every time he opened his mouth and spoke such hurtful things.