this is an interesting question which i am not sure i can answer, i was abused when very young, so i guess that counts as losing my virginity, that said my GP does not think i need the manditory smear test given to women of reproductive age here because she says i was so young that the hymen will have sealed over again as i was still growing . so i guess she sees me as still being a virgin. so i am pretty confused as to whether i am still a virgin at 42 or not! all i know is my childhood experiences turned me off the idea of ever having sex as i see the whole thing as creepy and disgusting.