Wow I can't believe how many of those symptoms and situations I can relate to. I have dealt with depression for years, now I'm starting to believe that it may be related to ADHD. I have never been able to stick with one thing for very long except my marriage and I have about screwed that up several times. I'm talking to my dr friday just not sure how to bring up ADHD without her thinking I'm just looking for meds. She may not but i freakout about that stuff.
Hope that made sense it takes me a long time just to write a simple paragraph. I have to read it a thousand times.