Well, Yellowted, I can tell you what I think of that kind of situation. I think you can still call yourself a virgin. You might not be physically a virgin (even if the hymen grew back or resealed, it had been broken, but you can go either way), but the more important way (IMO), emotionally, you may still consider yourself a virgin. You didn't get to experience sex the way it was meant to be. You were abused. One definition of virginity is "innocence" and, while many rightfully can say your innocence was taken, at the same time, you didn't lose it in the sense of getting to experience sex in a loving, gentle way, or a way in which a lover treated you with love and respect.